Why You Should Never Chase Women…

Jayden Young
2 min readJan 7, 2022
Source: Quora

One of the biggest mistakes I made was chasing women. Growing up, especially, I would constantly try to get girls to like me, but it never worked out. I wasted one of my most important things my time.

Why do you think everyone is telling men to find their purpose. It’s because if you don’t have a purpose in life, you will be lost in this world. That’s a very dangerous place for anyone to be at. I know men myself who grew up chasing women. They have several baby mama’s. The sad reality is that they have nothing to show for because of it.

When chasing multiple women, it doesn’t make you feel fulfilled. You will still be empty on the inside. Most importantly, as I said earlier, your time will be wasted.

Instead, focus on growing your career, having quality relationships, and getting your life together. It would help if you pursued women, but only women who want you. If a woman doesn’t want you, don’t waste your time chasing them. It shows, most importantly, you lack self-respect. Respect yourself enough to walk away from someone who isn’t good for you. This is why purpose is so crucial.

I will tell this story one more time. I know this older man who once told me.

“ Growing up, man, I was constantly chasing women. As an older man, I have to pay…

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Jayden Young
Jayden Young

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